Welcome, Adventurer!
This is a space for Nerds looking for a partner to create a loving relationship with, without

- depending on dating apps
- going to bars or clubs
- approaching strangers in public spaces
- being ashamed of your hobbies
I’m Alex, and I’m a Nerd
Hi! I’m Alex Goldstein. A Nerd and digital nomad. From when I was 14 to 21, I was a paying member of the Argentine Tolkien Association. Most of us in that community dated someone at some point. In fact, many are still together, married and with kids. Believe it or not, most us were very shy! Including myself.
Later, as a digital nomad, I had to learn how to find someone to date, work on my shyness and anxiety, and ask them out in cities where I was for only a few months and I didn’t know absolutely anyone!
How did other Nerds meet their partners?
I’ve been interviewing Nerds in serious, long-term relationships on my podcast. I wanted to know the exact steps they followed to meet their partners, what problems they faced, and how they finally started dating. These are the people I want to learn from. What works, what’s important, and what isn’t.
Now, I get to teach you everything I’ve learned so you can find your Player 2 even if you’re shy, introverted, or afraid of rejection.
Is this for you?
That said, my content and coaching can work for Nerds who want to find serious relationships. This is not for those looking for one-night stands, picking up people at bars or clubs, or learning how to manifest or attract someone magically.
Now, if you want to start your Quest to find your Player 2, start by learning where to look!