The Tolkien Association

Where to Meet Nerds, with Vir

🧝‍♂️ If you’re into Lord of the Rings and want a partner who shares your passion, start by making friends who are also into fantasy! Vir and I found long-term relationships at our local Tolkien Association, as did most of our friends there… except for very specific people who got rejected by everyone 🙄

🧓 In this episode, we reminisce about our experience meeting and dating fellow nerds with similar interests. Because while reading can be a solitary activity, it doesn’t have to be a lonely hobby. It’s just a matter of finding the right group of people with whom you can connect and build deep and meaningful relationships 📚

And that’s what you should focus on ☝️ Yes, you want to find a partner, but your main priority should be to expand your network. This way, you’ll be able to find a Player 2 without needing to go to bars, clubs, or approach random people on the street that you know nothing about 🍻

✋ However, if you focus solely on finding someone to date, you won’t fit in with this group. While people may be open to dating, it’s not a meat market. So hold your horses, have patience, and avoid the common mistakes we describe in this episode 🙅‍♂️

🎧 What’re you waiting for to give it a listen? Forth Eorlingas!